Archive for July, 2009


Do You WANT Your Marriage, Or Are You Playing Tug-Of-War?

I spend a good portion of my week responding to consultation emails and working with clients. This week, I had two cases that reminded me of a very important fact: we all have a tendency to play tug-of-war.Let me explain with a personal example. A couple of years ago, I was at a conference. In [...]

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Question: “What If I Don’t Feel Love?”

A while back, I wrote a post about two feelings necessary in a marriage. It has gathered several comments. One was a question that was a bit off the subject, but very relevant. I decided to make the question and my response a separate post. First, the question: “Hi Lee, I ran across your site [...]

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