‘Tis The Season. . . For Divorce Attorneys!
The Holidays are upon us — mostly regardless of your heritage, beliefs, or nationality! It seems that this month converges everyone in some holiday. And just around the corner is the new year!
Why would I start with that in a blog on marriage? Because it is not JUST the season of holidays. It is the season of a building storm! You see, in the United States between Thanksgiving and New Years, activities begin to grind to a halt. “Normal” life is put on hold, and people “hunker down” to make it through — especially if there are problems!
Who wants to stir up troubles during this time of the year? Most people who see a problem decide to put it off.
Unfortunately, many spouses assume that since someone is not talking about the problem, there is no problem.
But here is the truth: come the first week of January, there will be one happy group of people — divorce attorneys! People will fill their offices in the first week of January. In fact, there is a spike in divorce filings throughout January.
It happens for a couple of reasons. First, there is a buildup of people who have put it o
ff over the holidays. Second, the first of the year marks new beginnings. People with problems decide to take action.
My hope is you don’t fatten the pockets of the divorce business. If there were problems before the holidays, they are still there! Take these next few weeks to begin building a framework of healing. But don’t wait until January to get started! The attorneys are waiting!
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Over the holidays, my boyfriend gave me the breakup speech. Since I live with him, I have to move out. We were both smitten with each other early in the relationship and I still am, however, I don't see that sparkle in his eye anymore. I want that sparkle towards me back!! I now sleep in the guest bedroom. I don't have a computer in which to purchase or download your ebook, and when I move out it'll be impossible to use the Internet. Is it possible to buy your "kit" already printed?
I'm sorry to hear about your difficulties!
In order to make the information available to anyone, anywhere, 24/7, I have chosen to keep the system as a downloadable format. Also, since the System has both written and recorded elements, it would be tough to get it to you any other way.
I hope things work out for you!
Mr. Baucom my husband and I have been separated since April 2008. He recently served me divorce papers and trying t get part custody of our children. He also been resided as well in a relationship with a woman maybe three months after we split. I know through God all things are possible but can I save my marriage or should I save my marriage? I know I can find forgiveness but how?