Time To Really Show Up In Your Marriage!: #50 Save Your Marriage Podcast

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Show up in your marriage!We all do it.  We play it small.  We try to “slide by,” avoid the conflict, and hope something will change.

If you find yourself doing that, time to stop!  Life happens, problems end, and relationships improve, only when we finally commit to showing up.

Being present can radically change your relationship.  Really being there, present and attentive, can change your entire life.

So why don’t we show up?  Past hurts, fears, anger, resentment — they all can get in the way.

But letting those emotions and concerns get in your way only limits your life.  They only keep you trapped.

Free yourself and discover how to show up in this week’s podcast.

Let me know what you think in the comments area below!

Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Dr. Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For over 25 years, Dr. Baucom has been helping people around the world to save, restore, and create the relationships they desire and deserve. He is the author of the book, How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps, and creator of the Save The Marriage System, as well as numerous other resources.

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  • Janna

    Its all great to say “show up to your Marriage” but what if your invisible? My particular mid life crisis husband is very into much younger women. Has ‘fallen in love’ with one or two or more recently. I can get my life, my mind, and my body into amazing shape but cannot be any younger. I read an article on fb the other day where a beautiful, talented, in great shape, independent older woman was dating an age appropriate man. When they went for a weekend together, he did not touch her. When she asked why he replied he thought she was a great companion but had “spoiled himself with younger women all his life” and was not attracted to her in that way. I have heard that from my husband, too. What do you do when your husband only is attracted to younger women? The one thing you cannot change is time.