Chasing Is Killing Your Chanceshttp://savethemarriage.com/stmblog/wp-content/themes/corpus/images/empty/thumbnail.jpg 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/669b7e375d93f77521ddaba08adb8063?s=96&d=blank&r=pg
You may be pursuing your spouse, and in unhealthy ways. In fact, your spouse may be running away faster and faster, because your spouse is feeling the pursuit.
Why does this happen? Is it you? Is it your spouse?
Perhaps it is each of you, and perhaps it is both of you together.
Either way, the outcome is rarely positive. You may feel abandoned and your spouse may feel suffocated.
If you are just noticing the tendency to chase after your spouse, it is time to change it, before more harm is done. And if you are working to save your marriage, it is even more important to manage the emotions and the desire to chase.
Learn why this dynamic happens, and what to do to stop it.
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Dr. Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For over 25 years, Dr. Baucom has been helping people around the world to save, restore, and create the relationships they desire and deserve. He is the author of the book, How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps, and creator of the Save The Marriage System, as well as numerous other resources.All stories by: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.