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The dangerous modes are all reactive, based in fear, threat, and the desire to win (or at least be right). Then there are 2 other modes that you can choose to adopt.
On automatic, in the midst of a relationship crisis, the 4 dangerous modes grab you and call the shots. When you take your mind off automatic, you get to call the shots.
Here are the 4 destructive modes:
Which mode grips you? The dangerous (and destructive) modes or the constructive modes?
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