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Or maybe you are just blaming yourself. You see this whole mess as YOUR fault.
Blame has one single outcome — STUCK. It robs you of power (and steals away responsibility).
Blame is highly corrosive to connection. And it freezes up the process of change. It freezes out any chance for change.
And it is unnecessary. (Oh, and don’t fall into the trap of just changing who gets the blame. Blame your spouse or blame yourself. Same outcome.)
Let’s break the addiction to blame.
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