19 August, 2009 (10:28) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
. . . that was the opening line from an email I just received. The writer was clearly angry, feeling that I was pressuring her into saving her marriage.
So let me be clear, I DO NOT pressure people into trying to save their marriages. Obviously, I do think that marriages should be saved, [...]
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31 July, 2009 (11:02) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
I spend a good portion of my week responding to consultation emails and working with clients. This week, I had two cases that reminded me of a very important fact: we all have a tendency to play tug-of-war.Let me explain with a personal example. A couple of years ago, I was at [...]
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19 June, 2009 (10:56) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
Just a couple weeks ago, one of my clients gave me a bit of business advice that’s been directly applicable to saving a marriage. I wanted to share it with you.
My client, who is a businessperson, was telling me that there are four important “you’s” that are crucial for a business. [...]
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20 May, 2009 (09:55) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
Yesterday, I had the opportunity of talking with a couple that I may never see again. The reason I will never see them again is because they are not ready to make a change.
You see, they were caught in “ME mode.”What I mean by that is they were not even able to see outside of [...]
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11 June, 2008 (11:20) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
I don’t understand it! I have been a member of my local YMCA for several months now, but I don’t see a difference in my muscle tone or my waist! It makes no sense to me.
Oh, and a friend of mine went to the doctor, found out he had high blood pressure. [...]
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