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“How Dare You Tell Me To Save My Marriage!”

19 August, 2009 (10:28) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

. . . that was the opening line from an email I just received. The writer was clearly angry, feeling that I was pressuring her into saving her marriage.
So let me be clear, I DO NOT pressure people into trying to save their marriages. Obviously, I do think that marriages should be saved, [...]

Do You WANT Your Marriage, Or Are You Playing Tug-Of-War?

31 July, 2009 (11:02) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

I spend a good portion of my week responding to consultation emails and working with clients. This week, I had two cases that reminded me of a very important fact: we all have a tendency to play tug-of-war.Let me explain with a personal example. A couple of years ago, I was at [...]

Four “You’s” Could Save Your Marriage

19 June, 2009 (10:56) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Just a couple weeks ago, one of my clients gave me a bit of business advice that’s been directly applicable to saving a marriage. I wanted to share it with you.
My client, who is a businessperson, was telling me that there are four important “you’s” that are crucial for a business. [...]

Why Do We Drive Each Other Crazy?

20 May, 2009 (09:55) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Yesterday, I had the opportunity of talking with a couple that I may never see again. The reason I will never see them again is because they are not ready to make a change.
You see, they were caught in “ME mode.”What I mean by that is they were not even able to see outside of [...]

The Best Information Fails If. . . .

11 June, 2008 (11:20) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

I don’t understand it! I have been a member of my local YMCA for several months now, but I don’t see a difference in my muscle tone or my waist! It makes no sense to me.
Oh, and a friend of mine went to the doctor, found out he had high blood pressure. [...]