Posts Tagged ‘can this marriage be saved’


How To Save Your Marriage When It Hurts

Too many times, I have answered my phone to sobs, had people come to my office in tears, write emails that are outpourings of pain. So, let’s be clear — saving a marriage is tough work!  It requires you to set aside the pain you feel and move forward.  It means setting aside anger and [...]

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Sometimes, It Is Just Easier To Give Up, Call It Quits. . .

. . .throw in the towel, walk away. Easier.  But better? Let me tell you about Rod and Penny.  They had been married for 17 years when they hit a tough spot.  Both “tried to get things better,” although neither told the other.  Then, both began to truly believe that the problem was the other [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: Will Problems Just Happen Again?

Has your spouse told you that even if you did work on the marriage, the problems would just come back, so why bother?  Or perhaps you did work on your marriage, only to see the problems return. Does that mean that problems returning is unavoidable?  Does that make you or your spouse wonder “what’s the [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: I Keep Messing Up. What Do I Do?

Do you find yourself in a panic, making a crisis even worse?  Does that mean you can’t save your marriage? Time to discover what you need to do if you want to save your marriage, even if you are making mistakes.  Let’s face it:  you are in the midst of a crisis, and most of [...]

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Video: What If My Spouse Wants A Divorce?

Has your spouse asked for a divorce?  Are you wanting to stop the divorce.  Can you save your marriage, or is it too late?  We look at these questions in this video. My belief is that you can STILL save your marriage, but let me tell you more about that in this video.

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Video: Can You Fall In Love Again?

We recently looked at where the love went.  Today, we want to examine the question, “can we fall in love again?”  A crucial question. You see, I don’t think you should just be saving your marriage to avoid divorce.  I believe you can and should be building an exceptional marriage.  A marriage crisis does not [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: I Thought Everything Was OK! What Happened?

A marriage crisis can rear-end you!  You feel like you didn’t see it coming.  At least weekly, I hear from someone telling me that they knew their marriage was not going as well as they would like, but they thought it was temporary.  Maybe they expected that once the kids were grown, there would be [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: Will A Midlife Crisis End My Marriage?

So, we have a basic understanding now of what a midlife crisis really is.  But that only creates another question:  will it end your marriage?  Can the marriage be saved in the midst of a crisis?  The answer will be a challenge, but can lead to transformation of the marriage, if you heed advice on [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: What Is A MidLife Crisis?

Do you, in the midst of trying to save your marriage, suspect that your spouse is having a midlife crisis?  Many people think they know what that means, but do you really understand it?  Do you know what effect a midlife crisis can have on a marriage, creating a midlife marriage crisis?  Can this marriage [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: I Think My Spouse Is Having An Affair!

Can a marriage be saved?  There are many variables in that, one being infidelity.  That does NOT mean that an affair will end a marriage.  But it does add a complication.  So if you are wondering “can this marriage be saved?” and are suspecting your spouse is being unfaithful, what do you need to know?  [...]

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