Save The Marriage Video: Will Problems Just Happen Again?

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Save The Marriage Video: Will Problems Just Happen Again?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, May 27th, 2011 | 1 Comment

Has your spouse told you that even if you did work on the marriage, the problems would just come back, so why bother? Or perhaps you did work on your marriage, only to see the problems return. Does that mean that problems returning is unavoidable? Does that make you or your spouse wonder “what’s the [...]

Want to Save Your Marriage? Change Yourself!

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, May 4th, 2011 | No Comments

My guess is you are at my site because you want to learn how to save their marriage. There are relationship issues that must be addressed. But where do you start? My answer: look in the mirror. You, yourself are the greatest tool you have in your efforts to save your marriage. Let me tell [...]

Revive To Thrive: New Video

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, April 20th, 2009 | No Comments

Been following my information on building a thriving marriage? Well, the third video is now up. Again, no obligation or requirements. Just good information to help you discover what keeps you from having a thriving marriage. . . and what to do about it! Take a look at the video HERE! ********************More marriage saving information [...]

Excuse #4: “It’s Not My Fault!”

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, February 11th, 2008 | No Comments

I have heard that one over and over: “It’s not my fault!” There are two subtexts to this: 1: “Since I am innocent, why should I have to do something?”2: “Since I didn’t cause it, what can I do?” Let’s say your house is on fire. Perhaps you didn’t cause the fire, but do you [...]

Excuse #3: “I Can’t Do Anything!”

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, February 6th, 2008 | No Comments

Do you feel hopeless and unable to change the outcome of your relationship? Then excuse #3 may be the thought that is running through your mind: “I want to do something, but there isn’t anything I can do.” Henry Ford said “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.” In [...]

“I’m Sorry” Is The Starting Point — Not The End

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, August 20th, 2007 | 2 Comments

Several years back, my son had a teacher that would not allow the students to say “I’m sorry.” That may sound odd, coming from a 1st grade teacher. . . not allowing someone to apologize. But his rationale was this: Saying your sorry does not indicate a change. Changing indicates a change. While I think [...]

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