Knowledge Is Power. . . NOT!

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Knowledge Is Power. . . NOT!

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, December 27th, 2011 | 1 Comment

Have you heard that before? Knowledge is power? Trust me, after spending over 9 years, post college, in graduate school, I believe that information has power. Problem is, too many people forget one thing: knowledge that is not applied is useless. Knowledge is NOT power. Applied knowledge, THAT is power! On a daily basis, I [...]

Saving Your Marriage: What Does Pavlov Have To Do With It?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, September 9th, 2011 | No Comments

Remember Pavlov and his dog? In this famous experiment, Ivan Pavlov would ring a bell and then feed his dog. He repeated this process over and over, and then he just rang the bell. No food. Remember the dog’s response? He still expected the food and started salivating! We can all be clear that Fido [...]

Sometimes, It Is Just Easier To Give Up, Call It Quits. . .

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011 | No Comments

. . .throw in the towel, walk away. Easier. But better? Let me tell you about Rod and Penny. They had been married for 17 years when they hit a tough spot. Both “tried to get things better,” although neither told the other. Then, both began to truly believe that the problem was the other [...]

Save The Marriage Video: I Keep Messing Up. What Do I Do?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, May 24th, 2011 | No Comments

Do you find yourself in a panic, making a crisis even worse? Does that mean you can’t save your marriage? Time to discover what you need to do if you want to save your marriage, even if you are making mistakes. Let’s face it: you are in the midst of a crisis, and most of [...]

Save The Marriage Video: I Thought Everything Was OK! What Happened?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Saturday, May 21st, 2011 | No Comments

A marriage crisis can rear-end you! You feel like you didn’t see it coming. At least weekly, I hear from someone telling me that they knew their marriage was not going as well as they would like, but they thought it was temporary. Maybe they expected that once the kids were grown, there would be [...]

Video: When Is A Marriage Too Far Gone?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, May 11th, 2011 | No Comments

So, you are working to save your marriage, perhaps alone. And you begin to wonder, “is this just too far gone?” It is a common concern, full of emotion. Frightening to consider. But let’s consider it. This video will help you decide whether it is too late to save your marriage and stop a divorce.

Video: What Do You Do If Your Spouse Doesn’t Want To Save Your Marriage?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011 | No Comments

Many people find me and my work because they are trying to figure out how they can save their marriage, even when their spouse is not interested. Is that you? Are you finding yourself the one seeking save the marriage information? Are you wondering “can this marriage be saved when my spouse doesn’t care or [...]

Video: Can This Marriage Be Saved?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Sunday, May 8th, 2011 | No Comments

For anyone asking the question, “Can this marriage be saved,” today’s video will help you determine that. Too much marriage advice jumps in with suggestions. I want to help you understand why you are here, and what can be done. Then we can talk about what to do! So, watch today’s video to help you [...]

Saving A Marriage Requires Reaching Outside of Yourself

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, April 26th, 2011 | No Comments

At its best, marriage calls us to reach beyond ourselves, to love and show love to another. Two people doing that is magic! Both people are meeting the other person’s needs, and getting their own needs met. But what happens when that process begins to fail? The process is like a whirlpool, sucking the relationship [...]

“Can EVERY Marriage Be Saved?”

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, May 31st, 2010 | 3 Comments

I get asked this quite frequently. And my answer is “No, not every marriage can be saved. But many more can be saved than are.” Here is what I mean: a solid marriage is created by two people. However, one person can choose to end it for any number of reasons. Sometimes, the reason is [...]

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