Save The Marriage Blog

I get asked this quite frequently.  And my answer is “No, not every marriage can be saved.  But many more can be saved than are.”
Here is what I mean:  a solid marriage is created by two people.  However, one person can choose to end it for any number of reasons.  Sometimes, the reason is good.  [...]

. . . that was the opening line from an email I just received. The writer was clearly angry, feeling that I was pressuring her into saving her marriage.
So let me be clear, I DO NOT pressure people into trying to save their marriages. Obviously, I do think that marriages should be saved, [...]

Just a couple weeks ago, one of my clients gave me a bit of business advice that’s been directly applicable to saving a marriage. I wanted to share it with you.
My client, who is a businessperson, was telling me that there are four important “you’s” that are crucial for a business. [...]

So, this is the place to let me know what you think about the video! Any suggestions, disagreements, kudos? Just comment!
If you haven’t seen the video, you can do so by CLICKING HERE!
********************More marriage saving information can be found in my ebook, SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE HERE.
Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D., is the author [...]

Here is my Top 10 Ways to NOT Save Your Marriage! This is a partial list of the mistakes I see people make when they want to save their marriage. Sometimes, it is best to learn from others’ mistakes, rather than make it yourself.
10) Do nothing! Don’t worry, the crisis (problem, [...]

I remember when I was back in school. At the end of each semester, I was so tired of that class, and just ready to move on. During college, it probably had something to do with being ready to leave behind the classes where I had maxed out my skips!
In any event, it [...]

I have heard that one over and over: “It’s not my fault!” There are two subtexts to this: 1: “Since I am innocent, why should I have to do something?”2: “Since I didn’t cause it, what can I do?”
Let’s say your house is on fire. Perhaps you didn’t cause the fire, [...]

Do you feel hopeless and unable to change the outcome of your relationship? Then excuse #3 may be the thought that is running through your mind: “I want to do something, but there isn’t anything I can do.”
Henry Ford said “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.” [...]