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I’m afraid i can’t save my marriage

Fear Got You Stuck?
150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

How fear keeps you stuck, but doesn't have to!Just the other day, I received a message from someone who said she wanted to save her marriage BUT she was afraid.  She told me about the fear that gripped her, SO she couldn’t work on saving her marriage.  I tried to have a discussion with her, but she had a mistaken belief that her fear was keeping her from saving her marriage.

It was not her fear.  It was her.  She was keeping herself from working on saving her marriage.  Fear = background noise, at least in the process of saving your marriage.

Fear should never choose your actions.  Fear should never dictate what you do (or don’t do).  But many times, it does.

You probably already know that EVERYONE feels fear.  And many of us forget that fear is just that — a feeling.  We make it real.  We make it some determining factor in what we can do.  Fear can keep you stuck.  But it doesn’t have to.  That choice is up to you.

Discover how to keep your fear from keeping you stuck (notice I did NOT say “how to not feel fear”) and how to move forward.

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