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“How Dare You Tell Me To Save My Marriage!”

19 August, 2009 (10:28) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

. . . that was the opening line from an email I just received. The writer was clearly angry, feeling that I was pressuring her into saving her marriage.
So let me be clear, I DO NOT pressure people into trying to save their marriages. Obviously, I do think that marriages should be saved, [...]

Marriage Is Tough

12 June, 2009 (14:33) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

“Marriage shouldn’t be that hard.” That was the opening comment of my client this week. He was convinced that his marriage was doomed. He believe it was because his marriage had become difficult. He believed that this should not be the case.
I had to chuckle. Marriage is the most intense [...]

Excuse #4: “It’s Not My Fault!”

11 February, 2008 (09:59) | Uncategorized | By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

I have heard that one over and over: “It’s not my fault!” There are two subtexts to this: 1: “Since I am innocent, why should I have to do something?”2: “Since I didn’t cause it, what can I do?”
Let’s say your house is on fire. Perhaps you didn’t cause the fire, [...]