Rule #1: The Goal of Marriage is to Build a WE

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Rule #1: The Goal of Marriage is to Build a WE

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Sunday, May 20th, 2012 | No Comments

Do you want to know the one, biggest, simplest, and most difficult secret of marriage? It is right in front of you, but you may miss just how important this one is. In fact, this is the one piece of information I try to get into every person I see BEFORE they get married. And [...]

New Series: 10 Rules For Saving Your Marriage

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, May 18th, 2012 | No Comments

In the last two days, I have heard the same thing. Once by email, once by phone. Yesterday, the email said “I don’t have much time. Can you tell me just one thing I can do to save my marriage?” This morning, the voice on the phone said “Help! I am desperate! I don’t have [...]

Save The Marriage Video: I Think My Spouse Is Having An Affair!

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, May 16th, 2011 | No Comments

Can a marriage be saved? There are many variables in that, one being infidelity. That does NOT mean that an affair will end a marriage. But it does add a complication. So if you are wondering “can this marriage be saved?” and are suspecting your spouse is being unfaithful, what do you need to know? [...]

Video: Why Do Affairs Happen?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Sunday, May 15th, 2011 | No Comments

If your marriage has suffered infidelity, you may be wondering how you can save your marriage, and how you can even recover. Time to educate yourself! If you don’t know what causes an affair, it will be difficult for you to find the way back to your marriage. More than that, your marriage will continue [...]

“Can EVERY Marriage Be Saved?”

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, May 31st, 2010 | 3 Comments

I get asked this quite frequently. And my answer is “No, not every marriage can be saved. But many more can be saved than are.” Here is what I mean: a solid marriage is created by two people. However, one person can choose to end it for any number of reasons. Sometimes, the reason is [...]

I Am Sore and Tired (And What That Has To Do With Saving Your Marriage!)

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, April 14th, 2010 | 1 Comment

I admit it! I am tired. I am sore. I have discovered muscles I didn’t know I had, and ones I didn’t know could hurt! Here’s the thing: for years, I have been a trail runner. I love being in the woods, seeing the changing seasons, and running with my Yellow Lab, Sunny. We have [...]

Do You WANT Your Marriage, Or Are You Playing Tug-Of-War?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, July 31st, 2009 | 2 Comments

I spend a good portion of my week responding to consultation emails and working with clients. This week, I had two cases that reminded me of a very important fact: we all have a tendency to play tug-of-war.Let me explain with a personal example. A couple of years ago, I was at a conference. In [...]

Marriage Is Tough

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, June 12th, 2009 | No Comments

“Marriage shouldn’t be that hard.” That was the opening comment of my client this week. He was convinced that his marriage was doomed. He believe it was because his marriage had become difficult. He believed that this should not be the case. I had to chuckle. Marriage is the most intense relationship that any two [...]

Why Do We Drive Each Other Crazy?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, May 20th, 2009 | No Comments

Yesterday, I had the opportunity of talking with a couple that I may never see again. The reason I will never see them again is because they are not ready to make a change. You see, they were caught in “ME mode.”What I mean by that is they were not even able to see outside [...]

Core Beliefs: Why We Struggle To Change

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Thursday, April 9th, 2009 | No Comments

Did you see my earlier post about my free video on changing your marriage by addressing your core beliefs? Well, that video created so much email that I made a second video. You can see the free marriage video here. Here is an email I got yesterday (just one of about 100) about the video: [...]

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