It Is NOT Enough To Just Stop A Divorce

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It Is NOT Enough To Just Stop A Divorce

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Saturday, November 19th, 2011 | No Comments

You may be at my blog for any number of reasons: saving a relationship, stopping a divorce, addressing an affair, thinking about a separation. Likely, you are here because of a marriage crisis, not for pleasure reading, agreed? Many people want me to help the stop a divorce. But over the years, I have realized [...]

Saving Your Marriage: What Does Pavlov Have To Do With It?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Friday, September 9th, 2011 | No Comments

Remember Pavlov and his dog? In this famous experiment, Ivan Pavlov would ring a bell and then feed his dog. He repeated this process over and over, and then he just rang the bell. No food. Remember the dog’s response? He still expected the food and started salivating! We can all be clear that Fido [...]

Sometimes, It Is Just Easier To Give Up, Call It Quits. . .

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011 | No Comments

. . .throw in the towel, walk away. Easier. But better? Let me tell you about Rod and Penny. They had been married for 17 years when they hit a tough spot. Both “tried to get things better,” although neither told the other. Then, both began to truly believe that the problem was the other [...]

Video: I Can’t Get My Spouse To Go To Therapy!

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Wednesday, May 25th, 2011 | No Comments

Many people think the only way that their marriage can be saved is through marital therapy. So, when a spouse refuses to go, you might think you are out of luck in saving your marriage. Can the marriage be saved without therapy? Absolutely! In fact, marriage therapy has a dismal track record! At least 50% [...]

Save The Marriage Video: I Keep Messing Up. What Do I Do?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, May 24th, 2011 | No Comments

Do you find yourself in a panic, making a crisis even worse? Does that mean you can’t save your marriage? Time to discover what you need to do if you want to save your marriage, even if you are making mistakes. Let’s face it: you are in the midst of a crisis, and most of [...]

Video: What If My Spouse Wants A Divorce?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Monday, May 23rd, 2011 | 1 Comment

Has your spouse asked for a divorce? Are you wanting to stop the divorce. Can you save your marriage, or is it too late? We look at these questions in this video. My belief is that you can STILL save your marriage, but let me tell you more about that in this video.

Video: Can You Fall In Love Again?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Sunday, May 22nd, 2011 | No Comments

We recently looked at where the love went. Today, we want to examine the question, “can we fall in love again?” A crucial question. You see, I don’t think you should just be saving your marriage to avoid divorce. I believe you can and should be building an exceptional marriage. A marriage crisis does not [...]

Save The Marriage Video: I Thought Everything Was OK! What Happened?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Saturday, May 21st, 2011 | No Comments

A marriage crisis can rear-end you! You feel like you didn’t see it coming. At least weekly, I hear from someone telling me that they knew their marriage was not going as well as they would like, but they thought it was temporary. Maybe they expected that once the kids were grown, there would be [...]

Save The Marriage Video: Will A Midlife Crisis End My Marriage?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Thursday, May 19th, 2011 | No Comments

So, we have a basic understanding now of what a midlife crisis really is. But that only creates another question: will it end your marriage? Can the marriage be saved in the midst of a crisis? The answer will be a challenge, but can lead to transformation of the marriage, if you heed advice on [...]

Save The Marriage Video: What Is A MidLife Crisis?

By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. on Tuesday, May 17th, 2011 | No Comments

Do you, in the midst of trying to save your marriage, suspect that your spouse is having a midlife crisis? Many people think they know what that means, but do you really understand it? Do you know what effect a midlife crisis can have on a marriage, creating a midlife marriage crisis? Can this marriage [...]

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