Posts Tagged ‘stopping divorce’


It Is NOT Enough To Just Stop A Divorce

You may be at my blog for any number of reasons:  saving a relationship, stopping a divorce, addressing an affair, thinking about a separation.  Likely, you are here because of a marriage crisis, not for pleasure reading, agreed? Many people want me to help the stop a divorce.  But over the years, I have realized [...]

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Save The Marriage Video: Will Problems Just Happen Again?

Has your spouse told you that even if you did work on the marriage, the problems would just come back, so why bother?  Or perhaps you did work on your marriage, only to see the problems return. Does that mean that problems returning is unavoidable?  Does that make you or your spouse wonder “what’s the [...]

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Video: What If My Spouse Wants A Divorce?

Has your spouse asked for a divorce?  Are you wanting to stop the divorce.  Can you save your marriage, or is it too late?  We look at these questions in this video. My belief is that you can STILL save your marriage, but let me tell you more about that in this video.

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Why Am I Optimistic About Marriages Surviving?

Every day, there is another news story of a marriage under assault. Public figures seem to manage to royally screw up their marriages, and for what? Well, answer that and you will be wealthy! The cost of actions seems high for the payoff, yet they keep happening. So, people sometimes wonder, why am I so [...]

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Top Ten Reasons To Go Ahead And Divorce (NOT!)

Divorce. A big word and a big decision. One that many take too lightly. After 2 decades working to stop divorces, I have heard all the reasons people give — really the justifications. So here is my Top 10 List! 10) This just isn’t fun anymore! Reality Check: “Fun” isn’t really what it is about, [...]

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Excuse #2: “I Can’t Afford This”

Here’s another excuse I hear over and over from people. “I can’t afford your information. It sounds great, but I’m broke!” Often, they follow this up with “I can find free advice” or “X is cheaper than you.” Both statements are correct. You CAN find advice that is free. And you can find cheaper advice. [...]

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Hint: Starting Divorce Proceedings Is NOT A Marriage-Saving Action!

I finally decided to say this in my blog. . . because I keep saying the same thing in emails! It started this morning. Another email telling me that she wanted to save her marriage, but that she had filed for divorce. Her question was how to start the conversation with her spouse. My answer [...]

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