7 Steps To A Marriage Saving Mindset: #45 Save Your Marriage Podcast

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Save your marriage by reaching for more.If you have decided to save your marriage, you have REACHED toward something many people don’t.

Saving your marriage can be a difficult process.  It will challenge you emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually.  And in the process, you can choose whether to fall victim to the process or be transformed by the process.

In this podcast, I invite you to be transformed.  In fact, I offer you 7 steps that will allow you to transform your mindset, your life, and quite possibly, your marriage.  If you follow these 7 steps, you will find a path of growth.  If you do not, you may find yourself caught in blame and misery.

Please take a listen and let me know what you think.  Would you add any other steps?  How have you already taken some of the steps?  What steps WILL you take?  Commit to the change and let us know in the comments area below.

Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Dr. Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For over 25 years, Dr. Baucom has been helping people around the world to save, restore, and create the relationships they desire and deserve. He is the author of the book, How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps, and creator of the Save The Marriage System, as well as numerous other resources.

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  • Annmarie J.

    This podcast is really helping me. But how do you get your spouse to respond to you if she is saying that her heart is not in it? I’m lost.

  • You keep working on yourself and the connection. A “heart is not in it” means a heart that feels no connection. Renew the connection and the heart will follow. Just be sure you are also working on improving yourself.

  • John

    Im really uncertain my partner will accept the changes I make even with initiating 7 steps to a marriage saving mindset. Ive been hurt before and apprehensive. My love wont even speak to me. What shall I do?

  • J.A

    Lee, the podcasts definitely help me as well. But my spouse is so wracked with guilt from his affair that he says he doesn’t think he can get over it. This is our constant roadblock it seems.

  • walking it out

    This podcast is helping me. However, what do you do when you have tried to make the marriage work and it seems helpless. My husband has been unfaithful through out the marriage. He says that he has a sex addition. Well, after 19 years of marriage, he has done the unthinkable. He met a woman and he is at her house 75% of the time. He has taken her on cruises and brought her tires for her vehicle. He told me less than a month ago, that he is not renewing the lease on our house and I need to find somewhere for me and the kids to go. He said that I need to pull my self together and that he does not hate me. He says that he wants to see me happy and prospering. He said that he can’t make me happy. He said that we need to try separation. He is moving out to be with his girlfriend. I am trying to pull it together but I hurt badly. I tried telling him that I love him and I moved back into our bedroom after being out of it for 10 years. I am going to order your series. It may not help me in saving my marriage but I believe it will help me get more of a footing for me. Please give your thoughts.