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Helping or Hurting??
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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Are you helping or harming your marriage and your chances of saving it?You’ve been working on saving your marriage… and you aren’t seeing the traction you want.  Or maybe is just isn’t moving as fast as you would like.

Sometimes, it can take more time than you think or want.

But are there times that your efforts are doing more harm than good?

Are there times you are hurting, not helping, your relationship and your chances at saving it?

Yes.

There are common situations I see in my coaching, where someone’s efforts to save a marriage are actually doing more harm than good.  Interestingly, people make the same mistakes others have made.

More interestingly, they are easy to see when they are pointed out.  And more importantly, they can be corrected, once you can see them.

So, let’s talk about the times when people do more harm than good in their efforts to save a marriage.

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Are You Hurting Or Helping?
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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Are you helping or harming your marriage and your chances of saving it?You’ve been working on saving your marriage… and you aren’t seeing the traction you want.  Or maybe is just isn’t moving as fast as you would like.

Sometimes, it can take more time than you think or want.

But are there times that your efforts are doing more harm than good?

Are there times you are hurting, not helping, your relationship and your chances at saving it?

Yes.

There are common situations I see in my coaching, where someone’s efforts to save a marriage are actually doing more harm than good.  Interestingly, people make the same mistakes others have made.

More interestingly, they are easy to see when they are pointed out.  And more importantly, they can be corrected, once you can see them.

So, let’s talk about the times when people do more harm than good in their efforts to save a marriage.

RELATED RESOURCES
Importance of Connection
Stop Chasing
Apologies and Forgiving
You Need A Plan
Show Up
Save The Marriage System

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

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Confession — I have to admit to this. . .
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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This is Lee Baucom, and I need to make a confession. . .Every now and then, I get an angry email or phone call.  But this one. . .

He started out nice enough:  “Are you the guy that has that save your marriage system online?”

“Yes.  Can I help you?”

“So,” he continued, “you are the one who claims to have helped people around the world?”

I noticed his voice was a bit more. . . pressured. . . angry.

“Umm.  Yes, that would be me.”

“Well,” his voice was just below a yell, “I bet you have never saved a marriage in your life!  I bet you haven’t even saved one single marriage in your life!”

We “chatted” for a bit longer.  But he was convinced. . . I was a fake, a fraud.

I thought about it for a bit.

And I decided I needed to make a confession.  I can’t live with myself anymore.  I do have to admit to this.  So, I just decided to record it.  Just so I am clear with everyone.

Listen to my confession below.

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