Is it possible to never be unhappy in a relationship? Is there a shift you can make that changes the whole equation? You may come to this site, unhappy in your relationship and frustrated with life. What if there is one shift that changes the equation? And what if that one shift is something entirely in your control? In this…
read moreYou find yourself in a marriage crisis. Perhaps your spouse just told you about how unhappy, dissatisfied, disappointed, frustrated, or angry he or she is. Perhaps your spouse talked about separation or divorce Your first reaction is likely shock. You feel that gut-wrenching grab in your stomach, the cold sweat of fear gripping you. The floor can seem to fall…
read moreI was busy working on some projects when a news notification popped up on my tablet: “Bill and Melinda Gates Announce They Are Divorcing.” Wow, what a power couple! And they were calling it quits. Whenever this happens, a powerful and successful couple decides to divorce, I hear from a few people. They look at all of that _______ (you…
read more“I don’t think we should be married.” That was “Jen’s” opening words. “John” sat quietly beside her. I asked her quietly, “Why do you think you shouldn’t be married?” “Because,” said Jen, “if we should be married, we would not be having problems. We wouldn’t always be struggling.” I sat quietly, not quite sure how to respond. What an assumption! …
read moreYour marriage is in crisis. It may be a surprise or it may just be you have finally hit bottom after watching a slow and chronic decline. But either way, you find yourself fighting for your marriage. When “Anne” called, she was in the same spot. Her husband dropped the news on her over the weekend. She knew things weren’t…
read moreI just received another email about why I can’t help them with their marriage. Simply put, the writer told me that their situation is just too unique. No book, ebook, special report, seminar, etc., could help them, because they are just too different. Their situation is just too unique for “general help.” Every week, I get several emails from people…
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