Confidence and capability. Two big blocks holding people back from saving their marriage — unnecessarily!
People call or write me and tell me they are absolutely ready to do whatever it takes to save their marriage. . . IF I can tell them their marriage can be saved. . . BEFORE they take action.
They want confidence. But that puts it in the wrong order. Confidence does not come before action. It comes as a result of having taken action.
Which leads to people asking, “how do I take action?” That is all about having capabilities — abilities and knowledge, tools, skills. THAT isn’t even the starting point. In some ways, that is the easier part of the process. (If you want to gain the skills and knowledge, get the tools, and create capabilities, GRAB THIS SYSTEM.)
Don’t wait for confidence. Listen to this week’s podcast for where you REALLY start.