What’s YOUR Model of Marriage?: #56 Save Your Marriage Podcast
https://savethemarriage.com/stmblog/wp-content/themes/corpus/images/empty/thumbnail.jpg 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/669b7e375d93f77521ddaba08adb8063?s=96&d=blank&r=pgMental models. We all have them. It can help us make sense of the world. . . and keep us stuck. Every mental model is really a shortcut in understanding reality.
A mental model is simply a way we understand something. Politics are a mental model. Each political view has a certain viewpoint on many topics and issues. But given the wide array of political views, it would appear that each viewpoint has shortcomings — information that is missing or ignored.
The same is true throughout our lives. Every mental model we have gives us both strengths and weaknesses. And we rarely examine why those models are there, or where they come from.
Take, for example, your model of marriage. Where did YOUR understanding of marriage come from? Mostly likely, it has a great deal to do with the marriage you saw as you were growing up.
Many of us grew up with the “tough it out” or “screw it, I’m out” models of marriage. The lessons learned by watching these two models can keep us stuck and limit our possibility for change in marriage.
Are you ready to make a shift in your mental model? Allow me to offer yet another model. I think you will find my model has more potential than either of the other two models.
In this week’s podcast, I cover the 3 models and give you help in making the shift. Let me know what model you had growing up, and how you are changing it now. Just leave a comment in the area below.
If you are ready for a new model, but are not quite sure how to get there, please grab my Save The Marriage System RIGHT HERE.
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