“I’ve Changed” And 3 Other Things NOT To Say
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It can be frustrating. You are trying hard to change yourself. You are learning about yourself and relationships. You are growing and know you are NOT like you were.
But your spouse doesn’t seem to notice. In fact, your spouse keeps on reacting to the OLD you, even while the NEW you is doing something different.
You want to SCREAM: “I’VE CHANGED!!!”
Don’t.
And while you are NOT saying that, don’t ask: “Why don’t you love me?”, “What did I do?”, or say “Please don’t leave!”
Want to know why? Want to know what to do, instead?
I discuss this on the Save The Marriage Podcast this week.
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