What Game Are You Playing?
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We all have hidden agendas. We all play games. And these are not “fun” games. They are mental games.
The problem is, in every game, every hidden agenda, every ulterior motive, there is manipulation and indirectness.
It may work for salespeople, attorneys, and politicians. But it rarely works for spouses and friends.
When someone is playing a mental game, our “BS” meter becomes hypersensitive. Something is just not quite right, just a little off.
And because of that, we lose trust.
What is YOUR game? What is the hidden agenda? What is the ulterior motive?
Don’t get tripped up by playing those games.
Learn what to do. And what NOT to do. . . .
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