The Trick to Saving Your Marriage
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Let’s just say that the bumper sticker, “I used to be cool,” has nothing to do with me. I was not cool. I was more the nerdy kid. And to be honest, I’m not sure I have really outgrown that.
In my teen years, I was a magician. My friends were magicians, jugglers, clowns, ventriloquists, and carneys. I even started a magic club at my high school. And no, the cool kids did not show up for it. Ever.
But I will tell you one thing about magic: it taught me a ton of life lessons… and a ton of psychology! I still recall those lessons to this day.
I probably learned more about humans and perception in my performing than I ever did in my psychology courses. I also learned lessons of perseverance and practice. That is the only way to master sleight of hand. I still rely on that to this day.
Which is why I am always interested when people ask me about the “trick” to saving their marriage. They want some little technique, some “sleight of mind” that will shift their spouse.
But more than that, there are some other lessons from magic that I watch play out. For example, people can come up with the most complex idea about how to do something. They complicate some simple things… in magic tricks and in life. And particularly in marriages.
In this Save The Marriage Podcast episode, we discuss the problems people create in their attempts to find the trick to saving their marriage.
RELATED RESOURCES:
My new free resource, The Connection Compass
My Save The Marriage System
My books
A training on The Dangers of the Shortcut
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