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Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Video: Can You Fall In Love Again?
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We recently looked at where the love went.  Today, we want to examine the question, “can we fall in love again?”  A crucial question.

You see, I don’t think you should just be saving your marriage to avoid divorce.  I believe you can and should be building an exceptional marriage.  A marriage crisis does not mean you simply limp along into the future.  You grow, learn, develop, and create a marriage much, much better than ever before.

Want to know what can happen?  Watch this video to help you save your marriage.

Save The Marriage Video: I Thought Everything Was OK! What Happened?
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A marriage crisis can rear-end you!  You feel like you didn’t see it coming.  At least weekly, I hear from someone telling me that they knew their marriage was not going as well as they would like, but they thought it was temporary.  Maybe they expected that once the kids were grown, there would be time for the marriage.  Or perhaps they thought that once their jobs were secure, or they were promoted, or. . . .

Fact is, marriages can fall apart, and one or the other spouse doesn’t see it coming, making you wonder “can this marriage be saved?” or “can I save my marriage?”

Start by learning what happened in this video.

Video: What If My Spouse Doesn’t Love Me Anymore?
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Have you heard “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or even more hurtful, “I don’t love you anymore”?  Those are devastating words. . . unless you realize the meaning behind them.

While I can’t take away the sting of hearing those words, I think I can cast some light on what that really means.  Please watch this video, if you have heard, or suspect, those words.  You can still save your marriage!

Save The Marriage Video: Will A Midlife Crisis End My Marriage?
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So, we have a basic understanding now of what a midlife crisis really is.  But that only creates another question:  will it end your marriage?  Can the marriage be saved in the midst of a crisis?  The answer will be a challenge, but can lead to transformation of the marriage, if you heed advice on your marriage.  Stop your divorce that a midlife crisis is creating.  Watch the video.

Save The Marriage Video: What Is A MidLife Crisis?
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Do you, in the midst of trying to save your marriage, suspect that your spouse is having a midlife crisis?  Many people think they know what that means, but do you really understand it?  Do you know what effect a midlife crisis can have on a marriage, creating a midlife marriage crisis?  Can this marriage be saved if the spouse is in the midst of a crisis?  Here is your “save my marriage advice” when a midlife crisis seems to be a part of the problem!

Save The Marriage Video: I Think My Spouse Is Having An Affair!
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Can a marriage be saved?  There are many variables in that, one being infidelity.  That does NOT mean that an affair will end a marriage.  But it does add a complication.  So if you are wondering “can this marriage be saved?” and are suspecting your spouse is being unfaithful, what do you need to know?  Get the marriage advice you need if you think your spouse is being unfaithful.

And HERE IS THE LINK to my book, Recovering From Infidelity

Video: Why Do Affairs Happen?
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If your marriage has suffered infidelity, you may be wondering how you can save your marriage, and how you can even recover.  Time to educate yourself!  If you don’t know what causes an affair, it will be difficult for you to find the way back to your marriage.  More than that, your marriage will continue to be at risk.  Start saving your marriage after an affair by watching this video.

And HERE IS THE LINK to my book, Recovering From Infidelity

Video: Should We Stay Together For The Kids?
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Nothing scares us more than what might happen to our children.  We know that divorce is tough on kids, with long-term consequences.  We also know that it is not healthy for children to live watching their parents in conflict.  So what is the answer?  Do you stay together for the kids?  Do you save your marriage just for them?  Or should you let it go?

We examine that question in this video.  The answers just might surprise you!

Video: Are We Just Too Different?
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Every couple has there differences between them.  Thank goodness we are not carbon copies!  But when there are marriage problems, is it possible that two people are just too different to make it work?  Is it possible to just be so different that saving your marriage is impossible?

We explore this question in this video.

Video: When Is A Marriage Too Far Gone?
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So, you are working to save your marriage, perhaps alone.  And you begin to wonder, “is this just too far gone?”  It is a common concern, full of emotion.  Frightening to consider.  But let’s consider it.  This video will help you decide whether it is too late to save your marriage and stop a divorce.