Break Your Agreements!
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Yep. Just break your agreements. All of them.
No, not your agreement to take out the trashcan, clean the house, bring home the paycheck, pick up the kids, or some other agreement you have WITH your spouse.
Break your agreements you have ABOUT your spouse.
Your agreements are your beliefs you have “agreed” with yourself about. They are beliefs you have, and remind yourself of, that you have of your spouse.
Perhaps you believe that your spouse is controlling or angry or distant or cold (even frigid) or rejecting or. . . any other belief you have.
You “agree” with yourself about these beliefs. Without really finding proof or evidence, you decide that these beliefs are true, just by agreeing with yourself.
BREAK those agreements! They do not serve you or your relationship.
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