The Connection Principle
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Connection is the lifeblood of any relationship… and especially a marriage. When connection is cut off, the relationship falters. When a marriage is disconnected, the marriage is at risk.
This concept is the backbone of my approach. It is the core of my System — restoring the connection.
Which is the problem. Many people push and push for connection, leading to — ironically — even less connection and more push-back.
The concept of connection as the most important factor in saving a marriage suddenly hits a wall. The techniques people use to restore connection lead to DIS-connection, rather than connection.
Instead of helping, I notice many people are harming their attempts to save their marriage. Not from ill-will but misunderstanding.
In this episode of the Save The Marriage Podcast, I explore the principle of Connect, Don’t Crowd. This principle is the 1st of 10 I covered with my VIP Virtual Coaching members. But it was so important, I wanted to make sure you understand it. (The other 9 are still available to all VIP members.)
Listen below to understand the importance of connection, how to do it, and how to avoid the crowding.
RELATED RESOURCES:
Connection is the Lifeblood
Healing Disconnection Resources
Connection on 3 Levels
The Save The Marriage System
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