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WHY Even Try? (Back2Basics)
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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Why should you even try to save your marriage? What does it matter? Should you just let it go? Find your WHY and discover how that can help your efforts to save your marriage.You may be wondering, “Does it even matter?  Should I just let this marriage go?  WHY does it matter?”

Let’s start with this:  It matters!  A lot!

Why does it matter?

Well, the real reason why can vary from person-to-person.  It is all about finding YOUR “why”, your big reason for working on it.

Here is an important hint:  the BIG Why is not about fear.  It is not about fearing the loss of something.  It is about what saving a marriage means to you.

In this episode of the Save The Marriage Podcast, I discuss 5 reasons why saving a marriage matters.  Then, I walk you through a process to discover your Big WHY’s, and how to use your Why’s to keep you on track, as you work to save your marriage.

Listen below.

RELATED RESOURCES:
B2B – Why Marriages Get Into Trouble
B2B – What To Do
B2B – How To Do It
System – Save The Marriage
How NOT To Save Your Marriage – Mistakes

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4 Fears That Halt Your Efforts… And Don’t Need To
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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4 fears that stop your efforts to save your marriage... but don't have to!You’ve decided to save your marriage. You start the process, maybe even make some progress.

Then, BAM!  You hit a wall.

A wall of fear.  Fears that sabotage your efforts, pull you back from your plan, get you to give up.

But those fears do not have to be the end of your efforts.  In fact, those fears need not do anything to your efforts.  Fears and actions are not the same.  Fears are fears.  Whenever we base our actions on fears, we give them too much power.

When you are working on saving a marriage, there are 4 fears that strike many people… and they may just hit you! And then, you have to decide whether the fears stop your efforts or if they are just “background noise.”

Which will they be for you?

Listen to the podcast episode below.

RELATED RESOURCES
Relationship Fears
3 C’s of Saving A Marriage
Why Save It?
Save The Marriage System

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