Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Believe You Can Change
https://savethemarriage.com/stmblog/wp-content/themes/corpus/images/empty/thumbnail.jpg 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/669b7e375d93f77521ddaba08adb8063?s=96&d=blank&r=pg
You’ve been working hard to reconnect and change yourself. You’re proud of your efforts. But your spouse just isn’t buying.
For whatever reason, your spouse just does not trust the changes — or maybe doesn’t even see the changes!
Do you feel like you are hitting a brick wall? Like nothing you are doing is making a difference? Like your spouse has already judged you and won’t allow themselves to see something different?
In this episode, I will be discussing several reasons why your spouse isn’t willing or able to see a change. Included are the times your spouse might acknowledge that there has been a change, but doesn’t trust that the change will last.
Does that describe your situation? If so, please listen. I also discuss how to shift this dynamic in your favor.
RELATED RESOURCES
How to Stay in the Game
Don’t Try to Make, Get, or Cause
Healing A Spouse’s Resentments
Why Connection Is So Important
Save The Marriage System
Podcast: Play in new window | Download
Subscribe: RSS