Bad Marriage Advice! Don’t Say This!
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There is a plethora of marriage advice out there. Much of it promises to save your marriage. Some of it is good. Some is fine. And some is dangerous.
The other day, I was reading an article by someone, proclaiming 3 words that would save your marriage.
That caught my attention! And then, it caught my ire. The advice was bad.
At best, the suggestion will do little to help your marriage. At worst, it will cause more resistance to your efforts to actually save your marriage.
Here is the 3 words to NOT say: “I will change.” Those are the 3 words, promised to stop a divorce.
And those 3 words will either “fall on deaf ears,” or greatly increase the anger and frustration of your spouse.
Why?
I share my thoughts on this in the free audio podcast below.
If you don’t listen, at least heed my advice and avoid saying “I will change.” Listen, though, for some better suggestions.
And when you are ready to take action, check out my Save The Marriage System.
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