Wishing And Hoping Is NOT A Plan!
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I admit it. I am an information junkie. If I am interested in something, I read and read before taking action.
Sometimes, though, when something big is in front of us, we forget that last word, “action.”
You can study, read, cogitate, agitate, marinate. . . and do nothing.
Oh, sure, it can feel like you are doing something. After all, your mind is in overdrive. But there is no action.
It’s kind of like being stuck in neutral, but revving the engine. It sounds like something is happening. The engine is roaring. But there is no movement.
Why does that happen?
I believe there are 4 barriers. Here they are:
- Fear
- Lack of knowledge
- Lack of confidence
- Lack of desire
We can work through any of them (except the last), and you can move forward with working on your relationship. But only when you are ready to lean into it.
But you have to get started!
Fear may make you feel like you don’t want to take action. But fear is really only telling you that it is important.
And you don’t have to get it perfectly. You have to get started and moving in the right direction.
Let’s get out of neutral and get you headed back to a relationship you can treasure!
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RESOURCES FROM THE PODCAST:
Your Reason Why To Save Your MarriageHaving A Plan To Save Your Marriage
3 C’s of Saving A Marriage
The Save The Marriage System
Virtual Coaching
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