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Giving Thanks Can Transform Your Marriage: Save The Marriage Podcast #18
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how to save your marriage with gratitudeThey were bitter, angry, and pointing the finger at each other.  Whenever I tried to get them to make a shift, they quickly reverted to blame.

I had to find a way to make a shift.

And then it occurred to me — one little exercise that transformed their marriage.  Here is the interesting thing:  either one could have done it and made a difference.

Since it is the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to let you in on the secret that transformed their marriage, and may transform yours.  It will certainly transform your life.  But only if you give it a try.

Take a listen to discover the power of gratitude and thanks.

Happy Thanksgiving!  Be sure to be grateful.  It is nothing small.

Let me know what you think!  Leave a comment.

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Who’s The Enemy Of Saving Your Marriage? Save The Marriage Podcast #17
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how to save your marriage by knowing the enemy of saving your marriage.Let me ask you one simple question:  who is the enemy of saving your marriage?  Is it your spouse?  Is it someone else?  Is it something else?

The answer is crucial.  Answer it wrong, and you will find yourself constantly struggling to move forward.  More than that, you will only increase the resistance from your spouse.

Don’t assume you know the answer.  Listen and discover.

Then learn how to deal with this enemy.

You can save your marriage, but this one mistake you do not want to make!

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Can Your Marriage Be Saved?: Two Measurements And What To Do: Save The Marriage Podcast 16
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Can your marriage be saved? Two measurements you need.Can your marriage be saved?  Let’s look at a couple of measurements that will help you determine how difficult it may be.

Do you know about boundaries and standards?  Many people confuse the two, and if you do, you can cause problems in your relationship.

Let’s talk about boundaries and how to set them.  And let’s talk about standards.  Can you raise your standards?  Find out why you MUST know the difference between your standards and your boundaries.

If you want to know how to save your marriage, you must understand the variables in your marriage and what you can do to gain control of your life situation.

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How You Hide and How To Show Up In Your Marriage: Save The Marriage Podcast
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How To Save Your Marriage By Showing UP and Not Hiding!Fear, resentment, habit.  All reasons why we hide.  And we hide more the more important the relationship.  The intimacy may scare us, the scars may hide us.

But if we want to heal a relationship, especially a marriage, we HAVE to show up!

In this week’s podcast, I examine the reasons we hide, and how to change this.

Discover the 6 Steps To Showing Up.

Follow the 4 P’s of Showing Up and you will find deeper connection than you believed possible.

Listen and then comment below.

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How To Save Your Marriage From The Zombie Infection!: Save The Marriage Podcast
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How To Save Your Marriage From Zombie InfectionIs your marriage infected by the “zombie virus?”  Do you find your relationship to be the “walking dead?”  Are emotions lost and connections missing?  Do you and your spouse respond to each other with “zombie grunts?”

The infection can be stopped.  You can fight the infection and heal the relationship.

Don’t allow the big 4 symptoms of a zombie infection to overtake your relationship’s immune system.  Fight back and restore your relationship to the living and the healthy.

(Special Halloween version of the Save The Marriage Podcast — and yes, the information CAN help you restore your relationship.)

Listen and let me know in the comments below what you think.  What are other symptoms that YOU see in a zombie-infected marriage?

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How Your Thoughts Betray You: Save The Marriage Podcast Episode 13
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Have you ever noticed that your mind runs pretty much non-stop?  Try NOT to think, and see how long you can do that.

The problem isn’t that you keep thinking.  The problem is how often you forget that you are thinking.  You confuse your thoughts with reality.  And that’s when the trouble begins. . .

In a previous podcast, I started a conversation about the dangers of your thoughts.  That stirred some thoughts in you, and many people emailed me for more explanation.

So if you have ever found yourself derailed by your thinking (which means everyone!), then you may want to listen to this short audio on how your thoughts get in the way of your efforts — in this case, to save your marriage/relationship.

Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments area below.

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How Fear Is Destroying Your Efforts and 4 Ways To Reverse It: Save The Marriage Podcast
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Fear.  It is the enemy of your efforts to save your marriage.  We all have fear.  But how much does fear get in the way?

In this episode of the Save The Marriage Podcast, we explore how your fear of abandonment can destroy and undermine your efforts.

But more importantly, we explore some ways to make progress, in spite of the fear.

Take a listen, then leave a comment below!

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Courageous Compassion And Doing What Needs To Be Done: Save The Marriage Podcast 11
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What happens when your feelings get you?  Do you give up or get busy?

We cover it in today’s podcast.

What happens when you see your spouse through a negative lens?  Why does this happen?

We cover it in today’s podcast.

Ready to be courageous, even courageously compassionate as you work to save your marriage?

We cover it in today’s podcast.

Let me know what you think!  Leave a comment below.  I read them all and respond to most.

And if you want to take advantage of the offer I make in the podcast, here is the link:

SaveTheMarriage.com/kindle

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Top 5 Things Your Marriage Therapist Will Not Tell You [Save The Marriage Podcast]
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Problems with Marriage TherapyIn this podcast, I tackle the top 5 things a marriage therapist will not tell you.  If you are in therapy, considering therapy, or have tried therapy, please listen!

Here are the Top 5 Things Your Marriage Therapist Will Not Tell You:

5)  Marriage therapy is not effective (let me tell you why).

4)  Your marriage therapist may not have the training (let me explain the training that is missing).

3)  The real issue is NOT communication (although many therapists focus solely on this).

2)  Talking your issues out may not help (and may actually do more harm).

1)  Your relationship may not be broken.

What would you add from your experience?  Please comment below.

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Can’t versus Won’t & Your Thoughts: Save The Marriage Podcast #9
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Wow!  Last week’s podcast caused a stir.  Lots of comments and emails, so I decided I needed to follow up.  Today, we look more in-depth at “can’ts” and then talk about why you and your spouse see things differently.

What do you think?  Leave your comments below.

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