End Your Dance of Hurt and Blame
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Hurt. Blame. Hurt. Blame.
The dance goes round and round, each person dancing the steps. That dance isn’t fun. But it certainly seems to be a popular dance for couples!
Every relationship has its unique “dance,” and both people generally stick to the same steps. . . until it doesn’t work anymore.
Then, the marriage can easily lapse into trouble.
Unless you decide to change the dance.
Since we are on this dance theme, many people tell me, “Well, it takes two to Tango.” True.
And if you are married, you two are dancing. In other words, the dance is already in progress. But you know what? In every dance, someone can choose to “lead” in a different way, choose to dance some different steps. And maybe even decide to change the music and dance a different dance entirely.
Tired of the dance you are in?
Stop the “dance of blame and hurt!”
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