Close
Enter your
text here
Posts Tagged :

i can’t save my marriage

…Yet
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
By:

YetThe phone rings.  I answer.  The person on the other end blurts, “I CAN’T SAVE MY MARRIAGE!”  And as calmly as possible, I add “Yet.”

Uh?

“I can’t save my marriage YET.”

Uh?

Many times, people contact me to tell me their marriage can’t be saved.  But I am not quite so sure.  It IS possible the person is right.  Not every marriage can be saved.  Before deciding that, though, I want to know more.

Is the person at a “failpoint?”

Does the person have the tools and knowledge needed?

Has the person actually taken action?

Has the action been useful and consistent?

This week, I will tell you why “Yet” is one of my favorite words.  It is powerful.  If you know why.

RELATED RESOURCES:
Failpoints
You Need A Plan
You Are Stalled
Save The Marriage System

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe: RSS

4 Mindset Shifts To Save Your Marriage: #30 Save Your Marriage Podcast
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
By:

Take action to save your marriage.Your “mindset” is how you think about your world.  For the most part, a mindset is hidden from you. . . which is why it is a problem.  If you believe that you can or can’t do something, part of the issue is your mindset — especially if you think you can’t.

Do you find yourself stuck, unable to move forward with saving your marriage because you are not even sure if it is possible?  Or perhaps you are caught by a mindset of inaction.  You know you need to do something, but you do nothing.  Maybe you find yourself caught in “research mode,” looking for more info, but doing nothing.  Or do you find yourself scared to do anything, afraid it might not work and you might fail?

That’s all about your mindset!  And your mindset is something you can change.  In fact, there are several ways you can shift your mindset.

In this week’s podcast, I discuss 4 simple ways you can shift your thinking, which will shift your mindset, which will let you do what you need to do:  Save Your Marriage!

Let me know what you think.  Are there other ways you shift your own mindset?  Use the comments are below to let me know.

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe: RSS

Can’t versus Won’t & Your Thoughts: Save The Marriage Podcast #9
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
By:

Wow!  Last week’s podcast caused a stir.  Lots of comments and emails, so I decided I needed to follow up.  Today, we look more in-depth at “can’ts” and then talk about why you and your spouse see things differently.

What do you think?  Leave your comments below.

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe: RSS

You Can’t. . . And You Won’t Like My Answer: Save The Marriage Podcast Episode 08
 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
By:

I-can't-save-marriageIf you think you can’t do it:  save your marriage, connect with your spouse, change yourself, etc., then you will want to listen in to the podcast.  And you may not like what I have to say.

Like it?  Let me know in the comments below.

Don’t like it?  Let me know in the comments below!

And if you are ready to take action, please grab my Save The Marriage System RIGHT HERE.

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe: RSS

  • 1
  • 2