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Your Questions About Infidelity, part 2

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By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

October 23, 2019

In the last episode, I answered questions about infidelity and marriage. Well, I started answering questions. Since I started asking for your questions, I have received quite a few about affairs and infidelity. So, I continue answering questions in this episode of the Save The Marriage Podcast.

Last episode, we focused more on what to do while there is an affair, emotional or physical.

This episode focuses a bit more on the aftermath. What do you do when the affair is ending/has ended? Especially if there is still contact!

What do you do with those thoughts and fears? What do you do about trust? How do you rebuild the relationship in the shadow of cheating? Especially if the cheating spouse is not doing what you want them to do in the recovery process?

And by the way, what’s “normal” in an upside-down reality?

We cover that and more!

Listen below for my answers to listener questions on infidelity (part 2)

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Your Questions About Infidelity, Part 1

By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

October 16, 2019

Someone cheated. What now? Can a marriage survive infidelity, either physical or emotional? Can a relationship recover after an affair?

Over the past while, I have been answering listener questions (you can submit by emailing here). And this week, we turn our attention to the subject of infidelity and affairs (both physical and emotional).

To be honest, I receive more questions on this topic than any other (which is the reason I wrote the book on recovering from an affair). So, this is only part 1 of my answers.

Affairs and infidelity affect many marriages. They are a risk during a marriage crisis, and they deepen a crisis already happening. Infidelity is less a cause of the actual crisis, and more a symptom. But a discovered affair is often the first clear sign of the depths of crisis.

How do you deal with your emotions? How do you deal with your spouse? And how about that other person?

We touch on this and many other issues in the episode below. Listen in.

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So, You Had An Affair: How To Recover — A Save The Marriage Podcast Special Edition

By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

December 6, 2013

Last week, I presented a special edition podcast on how to deal with an affair. It was mostly aimed for the person that suffered infidelity. But I had a number of people ask, “what if you are the one that committed the affair?” So, here is a podcast aimed at answering that. What do you do if you committed an affair?

People often wonder how to save a marriage after an affair. And the reality is that it is possible to move on after infidelity, but you do need some direction.

No punches pulled here. I tell you exactly what I think — straight talk about how to rebuild a marriage after an affair. What do you need to change, how do you need to act, what do you need to do? I lay it all out for you.

While I can’t tell you how long it takes to get over infidelity, I can tell you how to do it. But the grief and recovery process will depend on lots of factors. But if you are willing to move forward, it can be done. Marriages do survive infidelity — and can actually come out stronger!

A marriage can survive infidelity, and I can show you how to put the odds in your favor.

I will answer questions about whether to tell or not, how to set boundaries, raising your own standards, being transparent, and how to work on regaining trust and finding forgiveness.

HERE IS THE LINK to my book, Recovering From Infidelity

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Dealing with Emotional and Physical Affairs: A Special Save The Marriage Podcast

By: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

November 30, 2013

Is your marriage threatened by an emotional or physical affair?

Do you find yourself scared and unsure on how to deal with your spouse’s extramarital relationship?

Are you wondering if you can recover from infidelity in your relationship?

In this special audio podcast, I cover your plan for addressing the extra-marital relationship, whether it is physical or emotional.

Discover how to get beyond your spouse’s defenses. Find out whether or not to address the affair, whether or not to confront the other person, and whether or not to make an ultimatum.

I will also give you the 5 “don’ts” of dealing with an affair.

If infidelity, emotional or physical, is affecting your marriage, please listen to this audio.

Leave a comment below to let me know what you think. Leave any questions for future podcasts.

And HERE IS THE LINK to my book, Recovering From Infidelity

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