Connection and Disconnection: Powerful Resources for Healing
https://savethemarriage.com/stmblog/wp-content/themes/corpus/images/empty/thumbnail.jpg 150 150 Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/669b7e375d93f77521ddaba08adb8063?s=96&d=blank&r=pgOver and over, I hear the same story: pain and conflict, disconnection and anger, resentment and distance.
In my book, I note the 3 steps to saving a marriage:
- Connect with your spouse.
- Change yourself.
- Create a new path.
Connecting with your spouse is HUGE. In fact, the leading issue with marriages is that disconnection. Heal the disconnection, and the relationship can stabilize. It does not do away with steps 2 and 3. In fact, #2 needs to be concurrent to reconnecting. But #3, “create a new path,” is much easier when the connection is healing.
So how DO you do that?
Let me point you to some resources that will help you begin the process. Below are links to the resources, so that you can quickly access and heal your relationship.
The Connection-Starved Marriage — CLICK HERE
This is it. The reason marriages get into trouble. They are literally starved for connection. Which leads to hurt, further disconnection, and eventual disdain. Hear why in the Connection-Starved Marriage training.
5 Myths of Connection — CLICK HERE
This is a great starting point. You can begin to understand the ways we have misunderstood connection, so that you can move in the RIGHT direction.
7 Stages of Disconnection — CLICK HERE
This will help you assess where your relationship is right now! How deeply disconnected are you? Once you know this, you can begin to create your plan to reconnect.
How to Heal Disconnection — CLICK HERE
This resource will help you start the process of reversing the disconnection and move toward reconnection.
Why Healing Is Easier To Heal Than You Think — CLICK HERE
We are wired for connection. Which is why it is easier to heal than you think… when you know this little secret. I cover it in this training.
Being Courageously Compassionate — CLICK HERE
When you are hurting, angry, and frustrated, it can be difficult to even work on the connection. But YOU may be the only one ready to work on it. Courageous Compassion can help you choose a better path. This resource will help you move in that direction.
Show UP! — CLICK HERE
One other resource is about showing up. When you don’t show up, you don’t connect. And here is the great thing: you can ALWAYS show up. You can always decide you will show up in your relationship. Find out how!
Learn What Happy Couples Do Differently — CLICK HERE
These trainings will help you discover what happy couples do differently… and how you can follow their trail. Build happiness and heal disconnection with these trainings.
If you are ready to really step up and heal your disconnection, It is time to grab the Save The Marriage System HERE
And if you need coaching, LEARN MORE HERE